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Individual psychotherapy

Understanding your own world. One conversation at a time.

CONFIDENTIALITY - Everything a client shares stays confidential.

RESPECT AND ACCEPTANCE - All emotions, feelings and experiences can be here

HOPE AND POSITIVE EXPECTATION - I have a strong belief in positive outcome even in smilingly ‘impossible’ circumstances and that client pursues challenging yet achievable goals.

How I work

I work with adults (18+).

Languages: English, Ukrainian, Russian.

I work with people of all cultures, religions, races, genders, and sexual orientations.

Sessions are online and in-person.

A weekly session lasts 50 minutes.

The first 20-minute introductory session is free.

There is no minimum number of sessions.

Pay-as-you-go model.

Who I Help

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Ukrainians & War Refugees

I work with Ukrainians who are adjusting to life in a new country, are displaced within Ukraine, or have chosen to remain in their hometowns while living under a constant existential threat. Now in the fifth year of the full-scale Russian invasion, many of my fellow countrymen and countrywomen - while having adapted in many ways to life during the war - continue to face enormous emotional and practical challenges. These range from settling to their children growing up and attending kindergarten/school/university abroad, to living with the daily news of death, disappearance, or captivity of their loved ones.

Young Adults

I work with young adults who are navigating the early stages of building direction and confidence in their lives. I have a special place in my heart for people between the ages of 18 and 25. The experiences and challenges faced during this time are deeply formative, yet many are expected to figure them out on their own.

Expats in LATAM

I work with expats living in Latin America who are navigating cultural shifts and new beginnings abroad. Living between cultures can be both exciting and challenging, and therapy can provide a space to process the transitions that come with building a life in a new place. In my practice, I work with people from many cultural backgrounds and walks of life. Having lived across different cultures for more than a decade, I’ve experienced both the richness of human diversity and the common threads in the struggles people face.

I’m here to help you grow through what you go through

You didn’t come this far to stop

Immigration

Forced or awaited

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Relationships
Work & Career
Identity crisis

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Life transitions

Meaning and purpose in life

Grief & Bereavement

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Self discovery
Anxiety & Depression
Body image

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What's an Existential Psychotherapy

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Treatment method:

The main method is a therapeutic dialog. Existential approach is conversational, non-invasive and respectful of individual choices and ways of living. You can call it a practical training in the art of living.

The paradigm prioritizes the present moment, so you often hear a therapist bringing a client back into now, exploring the present moment and their own client-therapist relationship.

"The existential attitude to life can be compared to that of Buddhists and Stoics. Life is seen as a constant challenge that can be answered more fictitiously if you stand in a position of composure and determination, rather than avoidance and self-deception." - Emmy Van Deurzen

Frequently asked questions

When should I consider seeking therapy?

You may want to consider seeking therapy if you are experiencing complex emotions, challenges in communication or daily life, or if previously effective solutions are no longer working. Other reasons include feeling hopeless or experiencing thoughts of suicide, wanting to engage in more productive self-reflection, or wanting to become emotionally stronger and more stable.

Maybe I should I talk to a friend instead of seeking therapy?

It is not recommended as a friends does not guarantee your privacy. Sharing personal information with a friend could make you vulnerable to others, and your friend may not be equipped to solve your problem. You will experience relief from speaking, but friends may also offer advice that is not suitable for your situation. Seeking therapy provides a confidential and supportive environment to address your concerns with a trained professional.

Should I go in therapy again if previous experience with psychologist/psychotherapist didn't help me?

Any prior therapy experience can be a valuable source of insight for the next therapy you choose to pursue. While the decision to try therapy again is entirely yours, it’s worth remembering that each therapist is a different person, works with different approaches and methods, and that timing also plays an important role in how therapy unfolds.

If returning to your previous therapist isn’t an option for any reason, your prior experience can still become a meaningful part of your next therapeutic process. Talking about what helped, what didn’t, and what you expected from therapy can enrich your work with a new therapist and help shape a different experience.

How many therapy sessions will I need?

The number of sessions needed varies for each individual since each person's request and psyche are unique. Some may need only a few sessions to address their concerns, while others may require more prolonged therapy. One person comes into a therapy as soon as they begin to feel discomfort from the situation, and another suffers for years and has already caused themself a lot of harm. It is logical that more time will be needed in the second case.

Is in-person therapy more effective than online?

No. The format itself does not determine the effectiveness of therapy. It is largely a matter of personal preference and practical circumstances. In a large city like Bogotá, traveling to a therapist’s office may not be feasible for some people, while others may not have a quiet, private space at home for an hour-long online session.

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